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Originally published in Charleston
City Paper October 13, 2004
The Condom Cult: CHAMPS spreads
awareness and condoms
Jason A. Zwiker
It’s long after
midnight and an angel of a young woman, dark brunette in a crisp white
blouse, is taking a long, slow kiss from her girlfriend, who is
straddled across her lap near the bar. Cigarette smoke dulls the already
dim light above the bartender, the pool tables, and, further off, the
karaoke singers. Two young Southern gentlemen, both tall and moving with
a slow confidence that suggests either could have their pick of men in
this place, break away from one another and migrate off to opposite ends
of the bar. This is where Bob comes in.
With his
sideburns, crumpled white dress shirt, blue jeans, and a Marlboro
Menthol tucked behind his ear, Bob could pass for a very young James
Dean. An adolescent James Dean, even, dusted with glitter and just a
hint of mascara. He is older, he assures me, than he looks. Then he
excuses himself, walks up to one of the two alpha males at the bar and
begins to talk. Tonight, Bob is recruiting. As the outreach coordinator
for the Charleston Area Mpowerment Project (CHAMPS), Bob will make
certain that each person he speaks with tonight leaves with a clear
understanding of what his organization hopes to provide within the gay
community. He’ll also place in their hands a “fun-pack” sampler of
condoms, lubricant, and safe-sex instructions.
“Mpowerment
reaches across the lines that normally separate cliques within the
clubs,” Bob tells me. Originally developed in California, the program
focuses on gay men between the ages of 18 and 30, educating them on
safer sex practices and empowering them through communication and
negotiation skills training. The group mobilizes individuals to act as
agents of change within their social networks.
“Mpowerment helps
gay, bisexual, and questioning men come into a sense of who they are,”
says Virginia King, prevention collaboration coordinator for Lowcountry
AIDS Services. “The self-efficacy it builds helps them to say, ‘I’m not
going to be taken advantage of’ in their relationships.”
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